When Vision Feels Insensitive: Why Builders Must Push Through the Resistance

This article is part of the series “When Dreams Need Builders” – exploring how visionaries and builders must work together to transform ideas into lasting impact.

The most fragile thing in business isn’t the balance sheet—it’s the vision itself.


It happens in almost every growing business, and I’ve lived through this painful dynamic more times than I care to count. The CEO lays out a bold idea. Builders lean in, raise their hands, offer suggestions. Some ideas are dismissed in seconds, others ignored altogether. Over time, frustration grows. The feeling creeps in: “Why am I here if my ideas don’t matter?”

I’ve been on both sides of this painful dynamic. As a visionary building Yati Group, I’ve watched talented builders grow despondent when their suggestions aren’t immediately embraced. And earlier in my career, working with other visionaries, I felt the sting of having ideas dismissed or seemingly ignored. It’s a silent danger that can kill the very partnership that makes dreams possible.

The Weight of Unwavering Conviction

What I’ve learned through years of both success and failure is this: visionaries often appear insensitive not because we don’t value input, but because our belief in the dream is so strong, we cannot allow it to be compromised into mediocrity.

I remember the early days when I was building our first major client engagement model at Yati. My team had brilliant suggestions—some wanted to add more services, others pushed for faster timelines, some suggested different pricing structures. Each idea had merit. But I found myself saying “no” to most of them, not because they were bad ideas, but because I could see how each compromise would dilute what I believed could be truly transformational.

Looking back, I realize how I must have appeared to my builders: stubborn, maybe even arrogant. But what they couldn’t see was my fear—the terror that one wrong compromise would turn something revolutionary into something ordinary.

The Historical Pattern

I’ve studied how other visionaries navigated this dynamic, and the pattern is consistent:

Steve Jobs was called “unrealistic” and “impossible to work with” because he refused to bend on simplicity and design. When his team begged for keyboards on the iPhone, he insisted on a touchscreen. “Some people say, ‘Give customers what they want.’ But that’s not my approach. Our job is to figure out what they’re going to want before they do.” His builders thought he was being insensitive to market research. History proved he was protecting something precious.

Mark Zuckerberg faced endless pressure to abandon his “naive” vision of connecting the entire world. In 2006, Yahoo offered $1 billion to buy Facebook—a staggering sum for a two-year-old company. The board pushed him to take it. Investors demanded he accept. When he refused, they nearly fired him from his own company. Later, when Yahoo returned with an even bigger offer, he said no again. “In a world that’s changing so quickly, the biggest risk you can take is not taking any risk.” What looked like reckless stubbornness was actually the protection of a fragile belief that would eventually connect billions of people.

Elon Musk was described as “completely out of touch with reality” when he announced reusable rockets. Engineers at SpaceX, NASA, and across the industry said it was impossible. Even his own team brought him “realistic” alternatives. He kept pushing for the impossible. “When something is important enough, you do it even if the odds are not in your favor.” Today, SpaceX lands boosters on drone ships in the ocean.

The Builder’s Painful Truth

Here’s what I’ve realized through my own struggles with this dynamic: builders often interpret the protection of vision as personal rejection. But they’re two completely different things.

When I dismiss an idea in a meeting, I’m not dismissing the builder who suggested it. I’m protecting something that feels so fragile, so easily broken, that I cannot risk letting well-intentioned modifications kill it before it has a chance to prove itself.

I’ve had to learn this lesson the hard way. There have been times when I bent the vision to accommodate every good suggestion, only to watch the final result become a watered-down compromise that excited no one. And there have been times when my protection of the vision came across as dismissive of the very people I needed most.

What I Need from My Builders

After years of navigating this tension, here’s what I’ve discovered I need from my builders—and what I suspect every visionary needs:

Own the execution, even when the vision feels stubborn. Your role isn’t to replace the vision, but to find brilliant ways to make it real. Sometimes the most valuable thing you can do is take a “stubborn” vision and figure out how to execute it so well that its wisdom becomes obvious.

Challenge without sabotaging. Please, bring me your perspective boldly. I need your insights, your market knowledge, your operational wisdom. But once we’ve debated and I’ve made a decision, I need you to carry it as though it were your own idea. The vision can only survive if we’re united in building it.

Measure ideas by the vision’s integrity. Sometimes what feels like rejection is actually protection of something bigger. The question isn’t whether your specific suggestion gets implemented—it’s whether the overall vision gets built with excellence.

My Own Learning Journey

I won’t pretend I’ve mastered this balance. I’m still learning how to protect vision while honoring the builders who make it possible. There are days when I look back at dismissed ideas and realize I was protecting something that didn’t actually need protection. And there are other days when I’m grateful I held firm against suggestions that would have compromised something essential.

What I’ve learned is that both sides of this dynamic require maturity:

As a visionary, I’ve had to learn that how I say “no” matters as much as the “no” itself. I need to help my builders understand not just what I’m rejecting, but what I’m protecting and why.

As someone who has also been a builder in other contexts, I’ve learned that my ideas matter even when they’re not immediately implemented. Sometimes the best builders are those who plant seeds through their suggestions, seeds that influence the vision’s evolution even if they don’t change its immediate direction.

The Builder’s Choice

If you’re a builder working with a visionary who seems insensitive to your ideas, you have a choice to make:

You can let despondency creep in, slowly reducing your investment in the vision until you’re just going through the motions.

Or you can recognize that you’re part of something rare—a partnership with someone who believes so deeply in a dream that they’re willing to protect it against all odds, even when it makes them look stubborn or unreasonable.

The question isn’t, “Was my idea used?” The question is, “Am I still building with conviction?”

The Long View of History

Here’s what I’ve observed after two decades in business: history rarely remembers the hundreds of ideas that were suggested, debated, or dismissed in boardrooms. It remembers the few visions that made it through the crucible of development, and the builders who stood by those visions long enough to see them transform the world.

Some of the most successful builders I know are those who learned to find fulfillment not in having their specific ideas implemented, but in seeing the vision they helped build change everything.

The Partnership That Endures

The most powerful partnerships I’ve witnessed are between visionaries and builders who understand this dynamic. The visionary protects the core of the dream with fierce conviction. The builder brings relentless excellence to making that dream real, understanding that their ultimate contribution isn’t any single idea, but the successful realization of something transformational.

This doesn’t mean builders should be silent or passive. The best builders I work with challenge me constantly, force me to think deeper, and often influence the vision in ways they don’t even realize. But they do it with the understanding that we’re partners in protecting something precious, not adversaries fighting over whose ideas win.

The Call for Understanding

If you’re a builder who has felt dismissed or ignored, I want you to know: your ideas matter, your perspective is valuable, and your contribution is essential. The fact that every suggestion isn’t immediately implemented doesn’t diminish your importance to the vision’s success.

And if you’re a visionary reading this, remember that the very builders whose ideas you sometimes must reject are the same people who will determine whether your vision survives its first contact with reality. How we protect our dreams matters as much as what we’re protecting.

The future belongs to partnerships where visionaries can protect fragile dreams and builders can execute them with excellence, where both sides understand that the goal isn’t to win debates but to build something that changes everything.

Because the world doesn’t need more compromised visions. It needs more builders willing to push through the resistance to make uncompromising dreams come true.

The Danger of Visionary-Led Breakthroughs: When Success Becomes a Trap

This article is part of the series “When Dreams Need Builders” – exploring how visionaries and builders must work together to transform ideas into lasting impact.

When every breakthrough depends on one person, success becomes the very thing that kills scale.


After 20 years in business, I’ve learned something that still keeps me up at night: the very skills that help you build a company from nothing can become the chains that prevent it from scaling.

I remember the early days at Yati Group. I was spotting opportunities others missed, solving problems others couldn’t touch, negotiating deals that seemed impossible. Every breakthrough traced back to me stepping into the trenches. My team would celebrate these wins, and honestly, part of me loved being the hero who could fix anything.

But I’ve realized something dangerous was happening. In my eagerness to drive results, I was inadvertently training my builders to watch from the sidelines.

The Visionary’s Dilemma

In my experience, every visionary faces this trap. We see the opportunity faster, we understand the stakes deeper, we feel the urgency more intensely. So we step in. We close the deal, rework the pricing, fix the supplier relationship, resolve the HR dispute. The company moves forward—but only because we couldn’t wait for others to figure it out.

I’ve watched this pattern in my own business and in countless others across Africa. The entrepreneur who built everything personally continues to be the solution to everything. And here’s the uncomfortable truth I’ve had to accept: when this happens, it’s usually not because the visionary can’t let go—it’s because the builders haven’t stepped up to catch what we’re drowning in.

When Builders Watch Instead of Build

Let me be honest about what I’ve observed in my own leadership team over the years. Too often, when a crisis hits or an opportunity appears, I see the same pattern:

My finance head identifies a cash flow problem but waits for me to figure out the solution. My operations manager spots inefficiencies but expects me to redesign the process. My business development lead finds potential clients but wants me to handle the negotiation.

They’re not lazy or incompetent. They’re incredibly talented people. But somewhere along the way, they learned that bringing me problems was their job, and solving problems was mine.

The Weight of Constant Intervention

What builders don’t always see is the cost of this pattern on the visionary. I’ve realized that every time I step in to solve a problem myself, I’m not just helping—I’m also:

Exhausting my strategic capacity: The hours I spend in operational details are hours I’m not thinking about where we should be in five years, what markets we should enter, or what partnerships could transform our trajectory.

Creating dangerous dependencies: When I personally handle every breakthrough, I become the bottleneck. The company can only move as fast as I can make decisions, and that’s a terrifying limitation when you’re trying to scale.

Robbing builders of growth opportunities: Every problem I solve is a chance for one of my builders to develop their capabilities. When I consistently step in, I deprive them of the very experiences that could make them breakthrough-makers in their own right.

Building a fragile organization: If I’m the answer to every challenge, what happens when I’m not available? When I travel, get sick, or simply need to focus on strategy?

What I Need from My Builders

Over the years, I’ve come to understand what I really need from my team—and it’s not more problem identification. It’s builders who can create breakthroughs in their own domains:

In Finance: I need a CFO who doesn’t just track cash flow but builds relationships with suppliers that automatically improve our terms. Someone who creates systems that prevent cash crises rather than just reporting on them.

In Operations: I need an operations head who doesn’t wait for me to spot inefficiencies but systematically improves our processes, builds better workflows, and creates systems that get stronger under pressure.

In Business Development: I need a BD leader who doesn’t just identify opportunities but builds systematic approaches to client acquisition, creates relationships that don’t depend on my personal network, and opens markets I haven’t even considered.

In Human Resources: I need HR leaders who don’t just escalate every culture issue but build systems for team development, conflict resolution, and performance management that create sustainable high performance without my intervention.

The Builder’s Opportunity

Here’s what I’ve realized: when builders step up to create breakthroughs in their domains, they don’t just help the company—they liberate the visionary to do what visionaries do best. They free us to think long-term, spot the next big opportunity, and guide the ship instead of constantly patching holes in the hull.

In my experience, the best builders I’ve worked with understand this dynamic. They see a struggling visionary buried in operational details and think, “How can I take this burden off their shoulders?” They don’t wait for permission to solve problems—they build solutions and present results.

The MTN Lesson

I’ve studied how companies like MTN have scaled across Africa, and here’s what I’ve observed: their Group leadership sets the vision, but the breakthroughs that drive growth happen when local builders take ownership. The MTN Nigeria team doesn’t wait for Johannesburg to solve every market challenge—they build local solutions. The Eswatini operation doesn’t need Group approval to innovate their customer service—they hold their line and improve their domain.

This is what I dream of for Yati Group: builders who carry the vision so completely that when they speak about our strategy, it sounds like they invented it themselves. Not because they’re taking credit, but because they’ve made it their own mission to build it into reality.

The Builder’s Honest Assessment

If you’re a builder reading this, let me ask you some questions from my heart:

When your visionary is drowning in details that should be handled at your level, do you:

  • Wait for them to figure it out and give you instructions?
  • Or do you step in, take ownership, and build the solution yourself?

When challenges arise in your domain, do you:

  • Immediately escalate to get the visionary’s input?
  • Or do you see them as opportunities to develop breakthrough solutions that will impress and relieve your visionary?

When you look at your visionary’s calendar and see them stuck in operational meetings, do you:

  • Think “that’s just how leaders lead”?
  • Or do you think “I need to build systems so they can focus on strategy”?

My Personal Challenge to Builders

After 20 years of building businesses, here’s what I know: I don’t want to be the hero of every story. I want to be the visionary who set the direction, and then watch with pride as my builders create breakthrough after breakthrough in pursuit of that vision.

I want my finance leader to surprise me with creative funding solutions I never would have thought of. I want my operations head to build systems so efficient they make our competitors wonder how we do it. I want my business development team to open markets and secure clients using approaches that go beyond what I could have imagined.

This isn’t about me stepping back—it’s about you stepping up. It’s about builders who see a visionary struggling with the weight of constant intervention and say, “I’ve got this. Let me build the solution so you can focus on the vision.”

The Partnership That Scales

In my experience, the companies that truly scale are those where visionaries and builders form a powerful partnership. The visionary casts the dream, sees the big picture, and sets the direction. But the builders—the builders make it unstoppable by creating breakthrough after breakthrough in their domains.

When this partnership works, magic happens. The visionary isn’t drowning in details but is freed to think strategically. The builders aren’t waiting for instructions but are innovating solutions. The company doesn’t depend on one person’s heroics but becomes a breakthrough-making machine.

This is what I’m building toward at Yati Group. This is what I believe every African business needs to scale. Not visionaries who hoard all the decision-making, and not builders who wait to be told what to do. But partnerships where builders step up to support the vision by taking ownership of making it real.

The Call

So builders, this is my challenge to you: the next time you see your visionary buried in operational details, don’t wait for them to delegate. Step up. Build the solution. Create the breakthrough. Show them that you’re not just there to identify problems—you’re there to build the future they’ve envisioned.

Your visionary needs you to be more than spectators. They need you to be builders who can carry the dream forward, who can create progress in your domains, who can build breakthroughs that free them to do what they do best: envision what comes next.

The future belongs to this partnership. The question is: are you ready to build it?

When the Heart Stops Beating: How Two Builders Saved Google

This article is part of the series “When Dreams Need Builders” – exploring how visionaries and builders must work together to transform ideas into lasting impact.

Every company looks invincible from the outside. From the inside, though, even giants bleed.


In the early 2000s, Google’s heart almost stopped beating. The very thing that made it valuable—its ability to keep search results fresh—broke down completely. The index stopped updating. Users were seeing results weeks, even months out of date. In Silicon Valley terms, this was a death sentence. Rivals like Yahoo were circling. Trust was hemorrhaging.

Yet the world never knew how close Google came to collapse. Why? Because two builders stepped into the void.

The Silent Crisis

Jeff Dean and Sanjay Ghemawat weren’t visionaries in the public sense. They weren’t on stage promising to “organize the world’s information” like Larry Page and Sergey Brin. They weren’t pitching investors or gracing magazine covers. They were engineers buried deep in the system’s architecture, the kind of builders who spoke in code commits rather than conference keynotes.

When Google’s indexing system began failing catastrophically, they didn’t wait for executive approval or form committees. They locked themselves in what became known as the “war room,” surrounded by whiteboards covered in system diagrams and failing server logs. What they discovered was terrifying: the problem wasn’t a simple bug fix. Google’s entire indexing infrastructure—the foundation that made search possible—was crumbling under its own success.

The elegant solution that had worked for millions of web pages was choking on billions. Memory corruption was spreading like cancer through the system. Servers were failing faster than they could be replaced. The beautiful algorithms that had launched the company were now its greatest liability.

So Dean and Ghemawat did something that would make most executives break out in cold sweats: they began rewriting massive portions of Google’s core systems from scratch. While the company held its breath and users remained oblivious, these two builders essentially performed open-heart surgery on a patient that couldn’t afford to flatline.

The Rebuild That Changed Everything

What followed were weeks that felt like months. Dean and Ghemawat didn’t just patch the failing systems—they reimagined them entirely. They created MapReduce, a programming model that would later transform how the entire tech industry processes massive datasets. They built the Google File System, designed to expect failure and recover gracefully. They constructed BigTable, a distributed database that could scale to petabytes.

These weren’t just fixes; they were foundations for the next decade of Google’s dominance. While the world saw only a search box that continued to work like magic, these builders were laying the infrastructure that would support YouTube, Gmail, Google Maps, and countless other services that didn’t even exist yet.

The index began breathing again. Search results returned to real-time freshness. Google’s credibility remained intact. But more importantly, the company now had systems built for resilience, not just speed.

The Builder’s Blueprint

That crisis reveals four fundamental truths every leader must understand:

1. The Most Critical Work Happens in Silence

While executives were in meetings and founders were evangelizing the vision, Dean and Ghemawat were in server rooms saving the company. The most vital builders often work in the shadows, protecting the dream when it’s most vulnerable. They don’t need applause—they need trust and autonomy to do what’s necessary.

2. True Builders Don’t Just Fix—They Rebuild

Anyone can apply patches. Real builders recognize when the foundation itself is flawed. Dean and Ghemawat could have implemented quick fixes to buy time, but they understood that sustainable success required rebuilding from the ground up. Sometimes the most courage a builder can show is tearing down what exists to build something better.

3. Crisis Reveals Who Your Real Builders Are

When Google’s systems were failing, dozens of engineers could have stepped up. But it was Dean and Ghemawat who took complete ownership, who saw the crisis as their personal responsibility to solve. Crisis doesn’t create builders—it reveals them.

4. Build for Tomorrow’s Problems, Not Just Today’s

The systems they created didn’t just solve Google’s immediate indexing crisis—they anticipated the challenges of handling exponentially more data, more users, and more complexity. The best builders don’t ask “How do we fix this?” They ask “How do we ensure this never breaks again?”

The African Parallel

This story isn’t just Silicon Valley folklore. Every business—from Johannesburg to Lagos to Nairobi—faces these silent crises. The payment system that processes customer transactions suddenly starts failing. The supply chain that seemed robust begins showing cracks under pressure. The customer service platform that handled hundreds of inquiries now buckles under thousands.

In these moments, companies discover who their true builders are. Are your leaders the type who escalate every crisis upward, or do they lock themselves in the “war room” and rebuild the foundations? Do they patch problems temporarily, or do they create systems that can handle tomorrow’s scale?

The Builder’s Examination

Every leader must honestly assess themselves:

When your company’s core systems start failing, do you:

  • Wait for the visionary to provide direction, or take immediate ownership like Dean and Ghemawat?
  • Apply quick fixes to buy time, or rebuild for lasting resilience?
  • Focus on managing the crisis communication, or dive into solving the actual problem?
  • Build systems that barely handle today’s load, or anticipate tomorrow’s challenges?

If your company’s “heart” stopped beating tomorrow:

  • Would you be the one in the war room rebuilding it?
  • Do you have the technical depth and systems thinking to architect real solutions?
  • Would your team trust you to lead them through the rebuild?
  • Are you building infrastructure for the company you are, or the company you’re becoming?

The Quiet Heroes

Jeff Dean and Sanjay Ghemawat never became household names like Google’s founders. They didn’t get movie deals or write bestselling memoirs. But without them, Google might have joined the graveyard of promising startups that couldn’t scale their initial success.

They represent a fundamental truth about lasting success: behind every enduring vision are builders who do the unglamorous work of making it resilient. They write the code that doesn’t break. They design the systems that handle failure gracefully. They rebuild foundations while the world assumes everything is fine.

The Call for African Builders

Every business—whether it’s disrupting fintech in Lagos or revolutionizing agriculture in Kampala—will face its “heart stopping” moment. Systems will fail. Foundations will crack. Trust will wobble.

The future belongs to those who don’t just dream big but build resilient. Who don’t just launch companies but create systems that can survive success. Who don’t wait for someone else to fix what’s broken but roll up their sleeves and rebuild what needs rebuilding.

Because sparks ignite dreams. But only builders keep the heart beating.

Holding the Line in Business: Guarding Your Space Like It’s the Last Defence

This article is part of the series “When Dreams Need Builders” – exploring how visionaries and builders must work together to transform ideas into lasting impact.

Why leaders must protect their own space as though the survival of the vision depends on it.


I’ve watched it happen too many times in my own business and in companies across Africa. The CEO lays out the vision. The team leaves the boardroom energized. Heads nod, notebooks fill with action items. But weeks later, when pressure mounts, something breaks down. A supplier is demanding immediate payment, staff morale dips after a difficult client interaction, a key partnership starts wobbling.

And instead of my managers stepping into the gap, solving the crisis in their domain, they become messengers. They relay the problem back to me like postmasters carrying urgent letters up the chain: “Finance is asking what to do about the supplier… Operations is saying the client is threatening to leave… HR is reporting that the team is frustrated…”

That’s when I realized a painful truth: that is not leadership. That is not building. That is abandoning your post when the vision needs you most.

Each Leader Has a Line to Hold

Over the years at Yati Group, I’ve learned that every GM, every manager, has a defined space: Finance, Operations, HR, Business Development. But I’ve also learned the hard way that these spaces are not mailboxes for collecting problems to send upward. They are frontlines.

What I need from my finance head is someone who treats their role as the last defence against cash flow collapse and supplier relationship breakdown. When a payment crisis hits, I need them to hold that fort—not forward the problem to my desk.

What I need from operations is someone who sees system failures and process breakdowns as their personal battle to win. When pressure threatens to collapse our delivery promises, I need them to stand their ground and adapt—not escalate every operational challenge as if it’s a strategy decision.

What I need from HR is someone who guards our culture and team morale like their life depends on it. When team dynamics start fracturing, I need them to step in and heal the breaks—not simply report the symptoms and wait for my intervention.

I’ve realized that when leaders see themselves as the last defence in their area, something powerful happens. They stop sending problems upward like memos. They solve, they adapt, they stand their ground. They only come to me when the issue truly requires a strategic shift—not for every gust of wind that hits their domain.

A Lesson from Ancient Governance

I couldn’t help thinking of this in biblical terms. During the time of Jesus, Judea was under the governorship of Pontius Pilate. When unrest grew around Jesus’ trial and crucifixion, it was Pilate who had to manage the crisis locally. Meanwhile, the wider Roman Empire, under Emperor Tiberius, carried on with imperial business. Rome didn’t stop to micromanage every disturbance in Judea. It expected its governors to handle their regions, report when necessary, and only escalate matters that threatened the empire itself.

That’s exactly what holding the line looks like in business. Each of my managers is like a governor of their domain. I cannot—and should not—be dragged into every disturbance in their “province.”

The Postmaster Problem I’ve Faced

I’ve experienced this postmaster problem firsthand, and it nearly killed my ability to think strategically. Too many of my builders were acting as postmasters rather than governors. They weren’t making decisions or protecting their space. They were simply relaying: “This department is asking… That team is saying… This client is unhappy…”

Some would disappear from the equation entirely, leaving me to deal directly with their teams on operational issues. I found myself in finance meetings that my CFO should have been handling, in operations discussions that my GM should have been leading, in HR conversations that had no business reaching my desk.

That’s when I realized this was the fastest way to weaken the entire organization—because when I’m forced to manage in the trenches, no one is truly governing the regions. No one is thinking about where we should be heading while we’re all fighting the immediate fires.

Learning from Global Companies

I’ve studied how companies like MTN and Standard Bank operate across Africa, and here’s what I’ve observed: the Group sets the vision and strategy, but the magic happens when local leaders own their space completely.

When the CEO of MTN Eswatini speaks about mobile money innovations, you’d swear the idea was born in Mbabane. When Standard Bank’s country head in Kenya discusses customer service improvements, it sounds like a locally-driven initiative. That’s because these leaders carry the Group’s vision as if it were their own, but more importantly, they defend and build within their territories without calling Johannesburg or London for every decision.

They hold the line in their regions, ensuring the dream survives local pressures while only escalating when they need empire-level direction.

The Questions I Ask My Team

I’ve started asking my managers some tough questions, and I encourage every builder to ask themselves:

• Are you guarding your space like a governor, or just relaying messages like a postmaster? • Do you take ownership of your domain’s challenges, or do you step aside and let me deal with the ground-level issues? • Do you solve and safeguard within your area, or do you escalate everything upward as if it’s all strategic? • If I disappeared for six months, would your region not only survive but thrive under your governance?

What I’ve Learned About Building

The truth I’ve discovered through trial and error is this: I may cast the dream, but my builders decide whether it survives. Every manager has a space to defend. When they truly guard it, own it, and hold their line, the vision becomes unstoppable.

But when they abandon their posts and turn into messengers, the dream drowns in operational quicksand while everyone waits for the visionary to rescue it.

I’m still learning how to build this culture at Yati Group. Some days my managers step up and govern their domains brilliantly. Other days I find myself back in the operational weeds, fighting fires that should never have reached my desk.

But I know this: the companies that will scale in Africa are those where builders understand they’re not just employees—they’re governors of crucial territories in the kingdom of the vision.

Guard your space. Own your domain. Hold the line. The dream depends on it.

The Graveyard of Great Ideas: Why Africa’s Visionaries Need More Than Applause

This article is part of the series “When Dreams Need Builders” – exploring how visionaries and builders must work together to transform ideas into lasting impact.

It’s 11 PM and the entrepreneur is still at the office, hunched over invoices that should have been processed by someone else three levels down. His phone buzzes with a supplier asking about payment terms—something his operations manager could handle. Earlier today, he spent two hours fixing a printer jam because “the boss knows how to sort these things out.”

His team sees him everywhere: in finance meetings, on the factory floor, troubleshooting IT issues, even restocking the kitchen supplies. They admire his work ethic. “Look how hands-on he is,” they whisper with genuine respect. “This man doesn’t ask us to do anything he wouldn’t do himself.”

What they don’t see is the strategy document that’s been sitting on his desk for six months, untouched. The partnership proposal that could triple their market reach, gathering dust. The long-term vision slowly suffocating under a mountain of daily fires that others should be putting out.

We celebrate these entrepreneurs as heroes of hard work. But here’s what we’re really witnessing: we’re watching visionaries bury their own dreams, one operational task at a time. We’re standing in a graveyard of great ideas, killed not by lack of talent or ambition, but by a fundamental misunderstanding of what leadership actually requires.

The Visionary’s Trap I’ve Lived

This scene plays out everywhere—from Silicon Valley boardrooms to African startups. I’ve lived this pattern repeatedly while building Yati Group. The pattern is always the same: brilliant visionaries drowning in operational quicksand while their dreams suffocate.

In my early years, I was a product visionary with revolutionary ideas for transforming how businesses approach strategy and growth, but Yati Group was struggling to scale because I was still thinking like a consultant who had to handle every client personally. I was burning through my energy on operational details while the bigger strategic opportunities remained unexplored.

Everything began to change when I started learning to step back from the operational maze. Not because I had better ideas, but because I began to understand that my job wasn’t to solve every problem—it was to create the conditions where others could build solutions. This shift didn’t start with a new vision—it started when I realized I needed to be liberated from daily firefighting so I could actually lead.

The same pattern appears everywhere in business history. Mark Zuckerberg was a coding genius with revolutionary social networking ideas, but Facebook was hemorrhaging money and struggling to scale because its CEO was still thinking like a programmer. Everything changed when Sheryl Sandberg arrived and liberated him from operational duties to focus on long-term product vision.

Steve Jobs faced a similar trap. Despite being the ultimate product visionary, Apple nearly collapsed under his operational weight. When Tim Cook joined Apple in 1998 as senior vice president of worldwide operations, he transformed Apple’s supply chain from chaos into precision. Cook “was responsible for making sure those dreams could be made and shipped”, turning Jobs’ brilliant visions into products that could actually reach customers at scale.

At Amazon, Jeff Bezos dreamed of “the everything store,” but it was Jeff Wilke who engineered the warehouses, logistics, and systems that made it real. Bezos called Wilke “an incredible teacher to all of us” and said “When you see us taking care of customers, you can thank Jeff for it”. When Wilke joined Amazon in 1999, the company was doing about $2 billion in revenue annually—now it brings in about $1 billion every day.

Even Elon Musk, perhaps the world’s most celebrated visionary, would be lost without Gwynne Shotwell. While Musk dreams of Mars colonies and tweets about rocket explosions, Shotwell “travels the world to reassure crucial business partners that the launch will proceed as planned”. As SpaceX’s President and COO, she’s “responsible for day-to-day operations and managing all customer and strategic relations to support company growth”. She’s often positioned as “the balancing factor for Musk’s appetite for risk”, but she shares his vision completely—she just builds the systems to make it happen.

I’ve learned this uncomfortable truth through my own experience: most visionaries unknowingly sabotage their own dreams by refusing to let go of operational control. And worse, our teams often encourage this self-sabotage by celebrating our “hands-on leadership” instead of building the systems that would set us free. As Jobs himself said: “I’m a tool builder… I want to build really good tools… Then you just stand back and get out of the way, and these things take on a life of their own”. But standing back requires builders you can trust.

The Builder Shortage I’ve Experienced

Here’s the uncomfortable truth I’ve discovered while building Yati Group: Africa has no shortage of visionaries. Our problem is that I’ve been part of creating a culture where everyone wants to be the big idea person, but few want to do the unglamorous work of building.

I’ve learned that building doesn’t look like standing up at conferences giving inspiring speeches. It looks like staying up at night creating business plans, designing processes when the old ones break, and fighting to maintain trust when mistakes threaten reputation. It’s the general manager who refuses to let a plan die because it’s difficult, the operations head who pushes through resistance when complaining would be easier.

In my experience studying successful companies, the most scalable ones understand this distinction. At MTN or Standard Bank, the Group sets the vision, but when local CEOs speak, you’d swear the idea was born in their office. They don’t compete with the vision—they embody it so completely it feels like their own dream. This is what I’m trying to build at Yati Group—builders who hold the line in their domains without waiting for my constant input.

The Execution Gap I’ve Witnessed

I’ve seen it happen too many times in my own business and in companies across Africa: a brilliant strategy gets announced with fanfare, then dies slowly in committee meetings and feasibility studies. Why? Because too many leaders treat themselves as employees waiting for me to break everything down into bite-sized tasks.

What I need are builders who hear a vision once and say, “This is mine now.” They don’t wait for detailed instructions. They translate the dream into action, repeat it until others believe it, and weave it into the culture until it feels inevitable. Sometimes I realize I need builders who can create breakthroughs that free me from the danger of every innovation depending on my personal involvement.

Consider how every workshop and national meeting in Eswatini begins with reference to His Majesty’s vision—first Vision 2022, now the rallying call Nkwe! That’s how visions become reality: they’re spoken, repeated, and carried by many until they become part of the national rhythm. This is what I’m learning to build at Yati Group.

But I’ve also learned that sometimes my vision feels insensitive to my team’s input, not because I don’t value their ideas, but because I’m trying to protect something fragile from being compromised into mediocrity. The best builders understand this tension and push through the resistance to make the vision stronger.

The Four Builder Questions I Ask My Team

Every leader in my organization—whether in a corporate boardroom or around a family fire—must honestly answer these questions I’ve developed through years of learning:

Am I truly building, or just executing tasks? Builders create systems and solve problems. Task-executors wait for detailed instructions. Sometimes I need my team to step in like the builders who saved Google’s heart when it stopped beating, taking complete ownership of critical failures.

Do I own this vision as if it were mine? When you speak about Yati Group’s direction, does it sound like your personal mission, or someone else’s homework assignment?

Am I multiplying the dream or managing it? Builders find ways to scale vision through other people. Managers just oversee existing processes.

When challenges come, do I protect or abandon? The true test of a builder is what happens when the dream gets difficult. Do you hold your line or immediately escalate to me?

Breaking the Graveyard Cycle

The next time someone in your family stands up talking about building the first car named after your surname, pause before you laugh. I’ve learned to ask myself: what if this dreamer had builders around them? People who could operationalize the vision, create a roadmap, and guide them on where to begin?

The missing ingredient isn’t more dreams—it’s more people willing to get their hands dirty making dreams real. We need fewer mockers and more builders. Fewer people competing for the spotlight and more willing to work in the engine room.

At Yati Group, I’m still learning how to build this culture. Some days my managers step up and govern their domains brilliantly. Other days I find myself back in the operational weeds, fighting fires that should never have reached my desk. But I know this: the companies that will scale in Africa are those where builders understand they’re not just employees—they’re governors of crucial territories in the kingdom of the vision.

Because here’s what I’ve learned through years of building: every movement that changed the world started with one person’s crazy idea and a small group of people who decided to make it real. The early Christians took the gospel from Jerusalem to the ends of the earth not because Jesus gave them a detailed business plan, but because the apostles became builders of something bigger than themselves.

The Choice We Face

Africa’s future hangs on a simple choice: will we remain a continent of brilliant dreamers whose ideas die at family gatherings? Or will we become a place where audacious visions find the builders they need to reshape the world?

The graveyard of great ideas is already overcrowded. It’s time we started building monuments to the dreams that lived instead.

I’m still on this journey myself, learning every day how to build Yati Group into something that can scale beyond my personal involvement. The question isn’t whether you have great ideas. The question is: when someone shares their dream with you, will you be the one who helps bury it—or the one who helps build it?


This article is part of a series exploring the critical relationship between visionaries and builders:

Make Your Job the Side Hustle, Not Your Business

One of the biggest reasons SMEs fail to grow is because their owners don’t take them seriously enough. They call it a side hustle and treat it like one—something they do after hours, on weekends, or when they have extra time.

But here’s the truth: A business you treat like a side hustle will never become your main source of success.

Think about it—if you only give your business part-time energy, part-time focus, and part-time effort, how can you expect full-time results?

The Side Hustle Mentality is Holding You Back

Many people think of their jobs as their “real” work and their business as “something extra.” But that mindset keeps them trapped in employment forever. They play it safe, waiting for the perfect moment to go all in—but that moment never comes.

The problem isn’t that they lack potential—it’s that they refuse to bet on themselves.

Meanwhile, the people who do succeed? They made the decision early on that their business wasn’t a hobby. It was their future.

How to Flip the Mindset: Make Your Job the Side Hustle, Not Your Business
If you’re serious about making your business work, start thinking of your job as the side hustle.

Your salary is just seed capital—it pays the bills while you build your real business. But mentally, your business is your priority.

You stop saying “I run a small side business” and start saying, “I own a business.”
You stop seeing your 9-to-5 as your identity and start seeing it as a temporary funding source.

You stop waiting for the “right time” to go all in—you start treating your business like the main gig right now.

This shift in mindset changes everything. You start making better business decisions, investing in growth, and structuring your business to scale—because now, you see it as your real future, not just something you do on the side.

Final Thought: Bet on Your Own Business
If you don’t take your business seriously, why should anyone else?

There is nothing “side” about building your own financial freedom. There is nothing “small” about owning something that can grow into an empire.

The only real side hustle? Thinking small while others are building wealth.

So, what’s it going to be? Will you keep treating your business as a side project, or will you finally give it the respect—and commitment—it deserves?

The Capacity Trap: Why Eswatini’s SMEs Are Stuck in Survival Mode

The system isn’t broken—it’s working exactly as designed. And that design keeps small businesses small.


I remember the day I realized my business had become my prison.

It was supposed to be a day off—something I rarely allowed myself—but by 10 AM, I was fielding calls about a supplier issue that “only I could handle.” By noon, I was driving to meet a client who insisted on dealing with me personally. By evening, I was back in the office fixing a problem that should have been resolved by my team hours earlier.

That’s when it hit me: I hadn’t built a business. I’d created an expensive, demanding job for myself, with worse hours and no guaranteed salary.

If you’re running an SME in Eswatini, you know exactly what I’m talking about. You’re not alone in this struggle—most small businesses here are stuck in what I call the Capacity Trap, a vicious cycle that keeps entrepreneurs working harder but never growing bigger.

The Myth of Control-Hungry Entrepreneurs

Let me dispel a myth that frustrates me every time I hear it: that small business owners don’t delegate because they want to control everything. That’s complete nonsense.

If you’ve ever run a business in Eswatini, you know the truth—you would love to delegate. You just don’t have anyone to delegate to.

Through building Yati Group, I’ve experienced this firsthand:

You invest time training staff, but they don’t take initiative. They complete tasks but never think beyond the immediate instruction. When something unexpected happens, they stand there waiting for you to solve it.

You hire people and invest in their development, only to watch them leave the moment a corporate job offers them more money and better benefits. Your small business becomes their stepping stone to something “more stable.”

You try to hire experienced people who could actually help carry the load, but they want salaries your cash flow can’t sustain. The people you can afford need more training than you have time to give.

You bid for contracts that could transform your business, but procurement committees look at your size and immediately assume “insufficient capacity.” Meanwhile, they’ll award multimillion-rand contracts to untested foreign companies without blinking.

So you do it yourself. Not because you want to, but because if you don’t, everything falls apart.

When Your Business Owns You

I started Yati Group to create freedom and build something meaningful. Instead, I found myself trapped in a cycle where the business ran me rather than the other way around.

The symptoms are unmistakable:

If I took a day off, things went wrong. Not catastrophically, but enough to remind me that my presence was the glue holding everything together.

If I didn’t personally review client deliverables, quality suffered. My team was capable, but they didn’t think like owners—they thought like employees completing tasks.

If I wasn’t driving business development, sales stagnated. Clients wanted to deal with “the principal,” not whoever I sent in my place.

If I was unavailable for even a few hours, decisions got delayed because no one felt empowered to make them without my input.

This isn’t a business—it’s an elaborate, expensive way to employ yourself with unlimited overtime and constant stress.

The System That Keeps You Small

But here’s what I’ve learned that most entrepreneurs don’t realize: the market system in Eswatini isn’t accidentally biased against SMEs—it’s designed this way.

I’ve lost count of how many tenders Yati Group didn’t even qualify for, not because we couldn’t do the work, but because the evaluation criteria were designed for large, established companies. Procurement committees see your name and immediately think “not enough capacity,” even when you know you could deliver better results than the expensive South African companies they prefer.

The requirements are set up to exclude you:

  • Years of experience in a market that rarely gives new players chances to gain experience
  • Audited financial statements that cost more to produce than many SMEs make in profit
  • Proof of capacity for contracts that would actually build that capacity
  • References from clients who won’t hire you without references

Even when you do break through and win a contract, the system continues working against you:

  • Payments are delayed, strangling your cash flow
  • Scope creep eats into already thin margins
  • Price negotiations assume you have corporate overheads and profit margins
  • Success is measured against standards set by companies with completely different cost structures

It’s designed to keep you as a small supplier, never as a strategic partner or competitor.

The Vicious Cycle That Traps Growth

What I’ve observed in my own business and in countless others across Eswatini is a predictable pattern that keeps SMEs stuck:

Limited Resources → Limited Delegation → Limited Growth → Limited Resources

You can’t afford experienced people, so you hire junior staff who need extensive training. But you don’t have time to train them properly because you’re handling all the senior-level work yourself. So they remain junior, and you remain overwhelmed.

You can’t invest in systems and processes because you’re spending all your time on immediate client needs. But without systems, everything depends on your personal involvement, which prevents you from focusing on growth.

You can’t take bigger contracts because you don’t have proven capacity. But you can’t build capacity without bigger contracts that allow you to invest in people and infrastructure.

Meanwhile, your clients get used to dealing with you personally. Your business becomes synonymous with your personal involvement. If you try to send someone else, they feel shortchanged. You’ve accidentally made yourself irreplaceable in your own company.

The Uncomfortable Path Out

After years of being trapped in this cycle myself, I’ve learned there’s no easy way out. But there is a way—it just requires accepting some uncomfortable truths and making some difficult changes:

Let People Fail (And Learn)

I had to stop shielding my team from the consequences of their decisions. If they made mistakes, I let them own the problem and find the solution. Yes, this meant some uncomfortable client conversations and occasional rework. But it was the only way they learned to think like owners rather than task-completers.

Stop Being the Bottleneck

I realized I was spending hours on administrative work that could be handled by someone at a fraction of my cost. It felt wasteful to hire someone for “simple” tasks when I could do them myself, but every hour I spent on admin was an hour not spent on strategy and growth.

Document Everything

If my team kept asking me the same questions, it was because I’d never created systems. I started documenting processes, decision criteria, and quality standards. This felt like wasted time initially, but it was actually an investment in my freedom.

Build Brand Trust, Not Personal Dependency

The hardest part was training clients to trust Yati Group as a company, not just me as an individual. This meant sometimes sending team members to meetings where clients preferred me, insisting on company processes rather than personal relationships, and gradually shifting credit from myself to the organization.

Choose Your Trust Investments Carefully

Not everyone deserves deep trust immediately, but some people earn it through their actions. When you find those people, you have to fight your instinct to micromanage and instead give them real ownership of their domains.

The Strategic Perspective

What I’ve learned through this journey is that the Capacity Trap isn’t just about individual business management—it’s about how Eswatini’s entire economic ecosystem functions.

Large organizations benefit from keeping SMEs small. They get competitive suppliers who can’t threaten their market position. Government procurement benefits from having “diverse” suppliers who never get large enough to challenge established players. Even banks prefer lending to established corporates rather than investing in SME growth.

Understanding this doesn’t mean accepting it, but it does mean being strategic about how you navigate it.

The Choice Every SME Owner Faces

After years of building Yati Group and watching other SMEs struggle with the same challenges, I’ve realized every small business owner in Eswatini faces the same fundamental choice:

Accept the Capacity Trap and remain a well-paid self-employed person with a business-shaped job, or fight through the discomfort of building systems that don’t depend on your constant involvement.

Both choices are valid, but only one leads to real business growth and eventual freedom.

If you choose to fight the trap, understand that it will get harder before it gets easier. Your clients will complain when you’re not personally handling everything. Your team will make mistakes you would never make. Your cash flow will be tighter because you’re investing in people and systems rather than keeping everything lean.

But if you persist, something remarkable happens: your business starts running without you. Your team starts solving problems before they reach your desk. Your clients start trusting your company’s capabilities, not just your personal involvement. Your business becomes an asset you own rather than a job you perform.

The Bigger Picture

The Capacity Trap isn’t just about individual businesses—it’s about Eswatini’s economic development. Every SME that breaks through this cycle creates jobs, builds local capability, and proves that Swazi companies can compete at higher levels.

But it starts with individual entrepreneurs deciding they’re tired of carrying their businesses alone and willing to do the uncomfortable work of building something bigger than themselves.

Are you ready to break out of survival mode?

What Drives You: The Strategic Mindset That Changes Everything

The difference between activity-driven and goal-driven decisions is the difference between drifting and building a life with intention.


A dear friend of mine taught me one of the most important lessons about strategic thinking, though he didn’t realize it at the time.

He was frustrated with his corporate job—well-paying but unfulfilling. Despite earning good money, he yearned to do more with his life but wasn’t sure what that meant. When a government position came along offering slightly better pay with significantly less demanding hours, he turned it down without much thought.

“I was afraid I’d get bored,” he told me during one of our conversations.

That’s when I realized he was making a classic mistake I see entrepreneurs make all the time: he was activity-driven rather than goal-driven. He was making decisions based on what felt right in the moment rather than what served his larger vision.

The Moment Everything Changed

As we talked, something shifted in his thinking. He began to articulate what he actually wanted: to start multiple ventures across different industries. He’d been frustrated because someone had convinced him that real entrepreneurs focus on one idea until it works—a limiting belief I’ve always disagreed with, especially in the early stages of building wealth and experience.

But here’s where it got interesting. Once he clarified his real goal, he suddenly saw that government job differently. “I needed more free time,” he realized. “That job would have given me exactly what I needed to get my ventures off the ground—good pay with reasonable hours.”

The opportunity had passed, and he had to start looking for alternatives that would serve his actual objectives.

The Cost of Activity-Driven Decisions

This conversation revealed something I’ve observed throughout my own journey building businesses: most people make decisions based on how things appear rather than how they serve their larger vision.

My friend initially rejected that government job because it didn’t align with his image of career advancement. It seemed like a step sideways or even backward. But when he started thinking strategically about what he actually wanted to build, the same opportunity looked completely different—it was exactly the foundation he needed for his entrepreneurial ambitions.

I’ve made similar mistakes myself. Early in my career, I turned down opportunities that didn’t feel prestigious or exciting enough, only to realize later that they would have provided exactly the resources, connections, or time I needed to pursue my larger goals.

The Strategic Mindset Shift

What I’ve learned is that there’s a fundamental difference between being activity-driven and being goal-driven:

Activity-driven thinking asks: “Does this look good? Does this feel right? What will people think?”

Goal-driven thinking asks: “Does this serve my larger vision? Will this get me closer to where I want to be? How does this fit into my strategic plan?”

When you’re activity-driven, many opportunities will seem useless, confusing, or unreasonable. You might pass on a “boring” job that actually provides the flexibility you need. You might avoid a “step down” that’s actually a strategic move toward your real objectives.

But when you’re goal-driven, you evaluate everything through the lens of your larger vision. Suddenly, that government job makes perfect sense. Taking a temporary pay cut to join a startup becomes logical. Driving a second-hand car while you’re building your business becomes a badge of strategic thinking, not financial struggle.

How This Applies to Business Building

Through building Yati Group and advising other entrepreneurs, I’ve seen how this principle transforms every aspect of business decision-making:

Who you hire: Activity-driven leaders hire based on impressive resumes and immediate availability. Goal-driven leaders hire based on who can best contribute to the long-term vision, even if they’re not the obvious choice.

What you invest in: Activity-driven entrepreneurs chase every shiny opportunity that promises quick returns. Goal-driven entrepreneurs invest in capabilities and relationships that serve their strategic objectives, even if the payoff isn’t immediate.

How you spend your time: Activity-driven leaders stay busy with whatever feels urgent. Goal-driven leaders protect time for the activities that move them toward their vision, even when those activities don’t feel productive day-to-day.

What partnerships you form: Activity-driven thinking leads to partnerships based on immediate mutual benefit. Goal-driven thinking creates alliances that serve long-term strategic objectives.

The Questions That Change Everything

I’ve developed a simple framework that helps me stay goal-driven rather than activity-driven. Before any major decision, I ask myself:

  • How does this serve my five-year vision?
  • What am I optimizing for—appearance or progress?
  • If I knew no one would judge this decision, would I still hesitate?
  • What would I do if I were thinking purely strategically?

These questions have saved me from countless activity-driven mistakes and helped me see opportunities that others miss.

The Strategic Paradox

Here’s something counterintuitive I’ve learned: the most strategic decisions often look wrong to people who don’t understand your larger vision.

Taking that government job might have looked like lack of ambition to my friend’s colleagues. But if it gave him the time and financial stability to build multiple ventures, it would have been the most ambitious move he could make.

Sometimes the path to your biggest goals requires choices that look small or even backwards to others. Being goal-driven means having the confidence to make those choices anyway.

The Compound Effect of Strategic Thinking

What I’ve observed is that goal-driven decisions compound over time. Each choice that serves your larger vision creates more options and opportunities. You build momentum in a specific direction rather than just staying busy.

Activity-driven decisions, on the other hand, often cancel each other out. You take a prestigious job that kills your entrepreneurial time, then quit it for a business opportunity you’re not prepared for, then scramble back to employment when the business struggles. You end up working hard but not making real progress.

Your Strategic Clarity

The most successful entrepreneurs I know all share this trait: they have such clear vision for where they’re going that they can quickly evaluate whether any opportunity or decision serves that vision.

They might drive modest cars while building their businesses, work for less prestigious companies that give them strategic advantages, or pass on seemingly attractive opportunities that would distract from their core objectives.

From the outside, their choices might look random or even questionable. But from the inside, everything connects to a larger strategic plan.

The Question That Matters

So I’ll ask you what my friend’s experience taught me to ask myself regularly: What drives your decisions?

Are you optimizing for how things look, or for where they lead? Are you making choices based on immediate comfort and social approval, or strategic advancement toward your real goals?

The opportunities around you probably look different depending on how you answer. That “boring” job might actually be perfect. That “risky” business move might be exactly what your long-term vision requires. That lifestyle choice that others question might be the smartest strategic decision you could make.

Because the difference between activity-driven and goal-driven thinking isn’t just about individual decisions. It’s about whether you’re drifting through your career and life, or building them with strategic intention.

What drives you?

10 Ways to Start A Business Without Capital in Eswatini

A number of Swazis have big dreams about starting their own businesses and in most cases have put up the lack of capital as the number one business limitation.

It is very true that you need capital to start a business but I have met too many people who’ve taken loans for business start-up only to find themselves broke in a matter of weeks and in huge financial debt. Below are quick tips on how you can start a business without a major financial investment. Please do share your comments below after reading.

  1. Partnership: find a trustworthy partner who can put in the money while you put in your expertise. When selecting a business partner look for someone who complements your effort and not in competition with your skill set. Based on my experience, a few years down the line lines get blurred and you find yourselves stepping into each other territories and this can be a source for major conflict. As well, don’t choose a partner because he/she is your friend or relative – doing this is a recipe for disaster.

    The founder of Alibaba.com and now the Alibaba Group, Jack Ma started with about 20 partners. As you can see partnership is all about getting talent into the business without any obligation to pay them a salary – because they are Directors/Partners in the business. Do you think Google was cooked up by the two gurus? Of course not, someone thought about the idea and roped in the other and then they started working together churning even more ideas that would make Google the superpower it is today.

  2. Get Clients first: Facebook offers an opportunity to make get clients before you launch your business. Simply set up a page and promote it to get as many LIKEs as possible. Those who become your fans may become your customers when you launch. I have taught on social media marketing in workshops and mastermind groups but people still fail to notice the inherent power of Facebook in helping you start, grow and run your business.

    I have a perfect case study for this; I started a facebook page called “Khangisa” and in a year I took that audience and turned them into customers for the print version of the classifieds site. We found the customer first and then created the product second. With effective technology available to every business person there has never been an easier time to get clients first. A few years later I flipped that business and turned it into an online shopping mall and as of updating this article we’ve delivered 1,000+ orders to customers country wide.

  3. Pay your staff on commission: there are a number of people who need jobs in Eswatini and will gladly sell your products at a commission. This way you don’t have to pay them any monthly salary.
  4. Enter business competitions: Join a competition like the one offered by Technoserve and work hard to be amongst the top winners. A number of people have seen success with this one. You can also use the internet to find other SME competitions you can join.
  5. Keep your day job while you are building a market for your business. Set aside a percentage of your monthly earnings to help fund basic business, costs such as business cards, website hosting or business registration.
  6. Leverage Relationships: Don’t serve companies, serve individuals. If there is one thing I am not very good at it maintaining relationships or networking. I even skip that chapter in all business books I read. However, just because I have a challenge with this does not mean it does not work; in fact, it works like a charm. Put yourself out there – create and maintain good relationships. As well be careful once you get the client to recognize that your true client is not the company but the individual who influences things inside the business in your favor. The day I discovered this insight was the day I kept one of my clients for more than 5 years after 3 years of turmoil and nearly losing the account.
  7. Become a thought leader: People i.e. customers, staff and investors need to know that you are really passionate about your business and your industry. If you take time to showcase that passion by sharing thoughts, insight and putting yourself out there as the go to person in your product category or industry then you will gain a thought leadership status. This will draw attention to your business and possibly start attracting the right talent, investors and even appeal to your end customers better than your competitors.
  8. Create experiments not products/services: I used to think I was the one who coined the ideology “fail and fail fast” until I read a lot of business books and found the concept in most of them. In my career I have come up with hundreds of product and services ideas, launched a dozen of them but 99% of them have crashed and burnt.

    One weakness most of us entrepreneurs have is falling deeply in love with the products and brands we created yet if we could only be able to see them as means to an end then it would be easier to quickly move on to the next if the one does not work. So find product ideas, launch them with as little fanfare as possible in order to avoid spending too much resources on them and then observe uptake or potential. Be quick to pull off the plug if it’s not working and move on.

  9. Hire university interns: The hardest working group I have ever hired are interns. They come in with so much fire – a point to prove really. They don’t expect much compensation because they get paid in experience. 90% of my full time staff came in as interns and I have since applied the same principle across all the businesses I have started. It works like a charm. You just need to be ready to spend a bit of time hand holding them as they try to adapt from school to work environment.
  10. Do everything yourself; at least until you start seeing some trickles of revenue coming in and order book starting to bulge. Most start-up owners make the mistake of being the “boss’ from day one. Sitting in their office dishing orders and if they are delayed, hire more “help” to sustain your living like a King status. People often say, if you want something to be done correctly or according to your specification, you must do it yourself. This adage holds true in business as well.

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An Open Letter To The Disgruntled Employee

Dear Disgruntled Employee,

Every morning you drag yourself to work, already tired before the day begins. Your boss is always on your case. Your colleagues aren’t the easiest people to be around. You give your opinion, but it feels like it goes unheard. You keep a silent record of every slight, every moment they’ve dismissed or mistreated you, and you carry it home where your partner probably knows the full list too.

You tell yourself you’ll start your own business. You even promise yourself you will. But the fire only comes when something at work pushes you over the edge—or when your salary disappears within 48 hours of hitting your account. In that moment, you’re ready to quit. You picture freedom. You picture control. You picture yourself building something of your own.

But then things calm down. Your boss lightens up. A colleague makes peace. The storm passes and so does your motivation. You tell yourself, “Maybe I’ll wait a few more months before I resign.” And the cycle begins again.

You’ve been here for months. Maybe years. You have a good business idea—maybe even a brilliant one—but it only lives in your head. It has become your “happy place,” a fantasy you visit when the job feels unbearable. But you haven’t taken real steps to bring it into the world.

And so, the best years of your life are being auctioned off cheaply. Your energy, your creativity, your strength—traded for someone else’s vision. You are multiplying wealth, but not for yourself. You are digging gold that will never belong to you.

One day, you’ll retire with just enough to get by for a few months. The company you built for someone else will continue to thrive. Their children will inherit a legacy. Yours will inherit your struggle—and you’ll expect them to support you while they’re trying to build their own lives.

I don’t mean to offend you. I only mean to hold up a mirror. The truth is, you may not really want freedom as badly as you say you do. Maybe you’ve given up before even trying. Maybe you’ve been lying to yourself. Because if you really wanted out, you would’ve taken the first step by now.

So, let’s be honest. You love your job enough to stay. Your boss, your colleagues, your paycheck—they’re the best you’ve decided you’ll settle for. And until you prove otherwise with action, that’s the truth.

Sincerely,
Someone Who’s Been There

P.S. If you truly want to break the cycle, don’t wait for a grand moment. Take one small step this week—write a one-page plan, open that side-business bank account, register a name, or make your first sale. Freedom doesn’t start with quitting your job. It starts with proving to yourself that you can act.

Edit: I wrote this letter 7 years ago today (September 2025) and I realize that there is a lot more I have learnt about life, growth, career and business since then. I no longer encourage people to simply jump in to start their own businesses because it’s a trap on its own in some ways. Read more about my thoughts about it here: Entreprenuership is not self-employment